Certain Men

When she was fifty-three, Venus Andrecht had an epiphany, a kind of near-death experience of the mind and her emotions. After a lifetime of grief with men in which she chose one bad relationship after another, she woke up in another "country" entirely. Suddenly, she had the proverbial eyes that could see, and what she saw in her life was amazing.

Awake and clear-eyed, she knew who "Certain Men" were and what they were about. She suddenly understood the "20-Minute Rule," and she could see how and why certain types of men always found their way into her life. And so she made a solid vow that dramatically altered her future . . . no more Certain Men, ever again.

And now, Venus is here to change your life, too . . . if you're ready. Learn who Certain Men are, and why you keep attracting these types over and over. Venus will show you how to spot them, then give you effective techniques to deal with them, get them out of your life, and keep them out. Best of all, by the end of this book you'll know how to find, recognize, attract, and keep a happy relationship with a Good Guy . . . and leave Certain Men behind forever.

Not only has Venus lived everything she teaches, but her unique talent as a medium and clarifying counselor has allowed her to help hundreds of women understand and change their own relationships. You'll read her advice to dozens of clients for whom she's worked, as she's "looked" into the men who've troubled them and found a way to unravel these women's messes . . .and help them recover from the Certain Men who've ensnared them.

The book is based on her experience of psychically helping hundreds of people, and is packed with their stories as well as her own. It also contains dozens of unique exercises that allow you to do your own inner work so you can start attracting the right kind of relationships into your life, and leave those bad ones in the past!

Readers Quotes

"Venus has done a wonderful job of providing us/the readers with a pair of 20/20 glasses through which to study the men who come into our lives. With searing insight and humor, she helps us identify which men to avoid like the plague and which men to appreciate. She helps us see our own folly as we attempt to fill the holes in our lives with relationships with men who have nothing to offer but more pain and heartache. She provides a diagnostic framework and a set of questions to help prevent a dangerous fascination with the wrong type of man from becoming a malignant growth in our lives and souls. And she offers a treatment plan for curing ourselves when we fail to heed the warning signs and end up sick and suffering at the whims of 'certain men.' This book should be on the summer reading list of every girl heading off to her freshman year at college. For those of us long past our college days, it will help us evaluate our current and future relationships with greater confidence. And it will strengthen our ability to steer a steady course when 'faced' with certain danger. Read this book as soon as possible and share it with your friends and daughters!"
—T. Irene Sanders, Washington, DC

"This book is fabulous! A must for any woman who has found herself repeatedly involved in bad relationships with 'Certain Men.' Venus is witty, intelligent, open and straightforward. She makes you think and really assess what's important in a relationship and in life in general. I also called upon her for a consultation and she was completely accurate and so helpful. I will be giving this book to several girlfriends. Thanks, Venus!"
—Christina E. E. Shetterly, Oregon

"So wise, true and hysterical. Only real life could be this good. Venus shares her life from the bottom of her toes and its a windfall for us. Best instructional manual I have ever read for how to stay out of messes in the future and let go of the nightmares of the past. Common sense that is completely uncommon. I'm as cynical as they come and I feel like there is hope after reading this!"
—Jill Bidwell, Rancho Bernardo, CA

"This is an absolutely wonderful book. My mom gave me the book to read. She has given me many relationship books but I have shoved all of them aside until I began reading this one. I could not put it down. I found myself saying "YES" out loud as I read. Everything shared in this book came absolutely alive for me. I had been with a Certain Man for two years and have just woken up to see what a bad situation is was. I am so glad Venus wrote this book because now I don't feel so alone. "
—E. Bradley, Michigan